In life, you are going to deal with things that are just beyond your control. This is a very natural thing because many things you can not control and you control. For that reason, having the fruit of the spirit is the thing you must remember and always have. because remember God is the right way to become a strong person.
To face the various obstacles that come to you in life, then there is a way that can make you stronger. Some of these ways are
1. Do not be too serious if there are people who speak badly about you. Give them a smile and keep me nice to them. Because the increase will come to a sincere someone who forgives others.
2. To forgive is not enough. Often people do wrong and they can not forgive themselves. Forgiving yourself is harder to do because of the many things you think about.
3. Respect what you have right now. And do not forget to take care of what you have right now.